Learning how to fight properly and deciding what to fight about are two of the secrets to a successful marriage. It usually comes down to the "line of respect" one way or the other.

James C. Dobson
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In marriage, one of the most important tools to effectively communicate with your spouse is the use of humor. When a husband and wife have a difference of opinion, it may be time for them to consider how to effectively communicate their disagreement, as well as the means by which they will resolve it. Humor can play a critical role in this process, as it can help them understand each other better and resolve a variety of topics, including love language issues. Another tip for a successful marriage is to learn how to fight properly and deciding what to fight about are two of the secrets to a successful marriage. If you have an issue with your spouse, you should take the time to understand both sides before you make any rash decisions.

Source: Life On The Edge: A Young Adults Guide To A Meaningful Future

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